The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends avoiding screen media for children under 18–24 months, other than video-chatting with family. From 18–24 months, if you introduce media, choose high-quality programmes and watch together. For ages 2–5, limit screen use to about one hour a day of quality content. Real-world play and conversation remain the best way young children learn.

Key takeaways

  • Under 18 months: video chat is fine; otherwise skip screens.
  • 18–24 months: if you use media, pick quality shows and watch together.
  • 2–5 years: about 1 hour a day of high-quality content, co-viewed when possible.
  • No screens during meals or in the hour before bed, and none in the bedroom.
  • Background TV counts too — it reduces talk and play.

Why the caution for babies?

Babies and young toddlers learn through face-to-face interaction, touch and movement. Research shows they struggle to transfer what they see on a screen into real life before about 2 years — the “video deficit”. Screens can also crowd out sleep, play and conversation, and background TV reduces the number of words adults speak to children.

Guidance at a glance

AgeAAP guidance
0–18 monthsAvoid screens other than video-chatting
18–24 monthsIf introduced, choose high-quality content and watch together
2–5 yearsLimit to about 1 hour a day of high-quality programmes; co-view and talk about it
All agesScreen-free meals, bedrooms and the hour before bed; a family media plan

Making screen time better

  • Watch together and talk about what you see.
  • Choose slow-paced, educational shows without constant ads or autoplay.
  • Use a timer and a predictable “off” routine.
  • Avoid screens as the main way to calm upset — children need to learn other ways to settle.
  • Model it: put your own phone away during play and meals.

Screen-free ideas that hold attention

  • Audio stories and songs.
  • Busy boards, posting boxes and simple puzzles.
  • Water play in a tub with cups (always supervised).
  • Board books in a basket at your child’s level.
  • “Helping”: washing vegetables, wiping the table, sorting laundry.

Video calls with family

Video chats with grandparents and loved ones are encouraged — they’re interactive and responsive, which is what babies need. Hold your baby on your lap, wave and talk together.

Frequently asked questions

Is “educational” baby TV okay?

For under-18-month-olds, there’s little evidence it helps learning. Talking, reading and playing together do much more.

What if I need a few minutes to shower?

Real life happens. Brief, occasional use isn’t harmful — just keep it the exception and choose calm content.

Are audio players screen time?

No — audio stories and music don’t involve screens, though they shouldn’t replace conversation and play.

More on development: language development and Montessori at home.

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